“You are quite right as ever
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Graham, I need you to talk to my wife as she has a slightly different view to you… LOL
I agree with your comments. To do a little more umbilical gazing, guilt and regret can be very destructive emotions unless we learn from them. There has to be an element of forgiveness in there, both for ourselves and for others. Only then can we let go of the guilt and move on to bigger and better things together.
It’s true that we need to remind ourselves of what we have, particularly in regards to family and friends; Christmas is certainly a good time to do that.
Kind regards as always
Andrew
Ps. Actually I have a gorgeous wife who is very understanding and supportive. We do everything as a team, but she isn’t afraid to let me know when I am on the wrong track! I enjoy the way you speak of your wife and I am pleased you have found the right person to spend your life with.