so no, I don't think I can anticipate the responses, this is why I am posting the question.
Do I have to take a long time in deciding? There is no special answer that I am looking for here. My mind is not as advanced as yours to be able to anticipate what the answers to my question would be. I am simply posting and thinking out loud, in the hopes of getting informed opinions. That is it, plain and simple. I'm sorry if you seem to interpret my questions differently.
I think you assume too much, that I am a successful person, and that I am probably trying to show off? What are you exactly trying to imply?
Just because I made a decision a day after the post, doesn't mean I haven't been thinking about it prior.