#1 likely has the same attitude as #3, but was more diplomatic (however, you asked the question directly of #3. If asked of #1, perhaps the answer would have been the same).
#2 didn't give anything other than diplomacy (their list could be ever changing; in reality, VIPs will likely always jump in front of you as lists need not be static).
Not saying your wrong to feel the way you feel, and I certainly will *not* be chasing any "hot" Rolex models, but all of the dealers may ultimately have the same view here.