My Rolexes scratched as much if not more than my Omegas, Pateks and Blancpain Lehman. The only advantage of wearing the typical ubiquitous Rolex complication is that it is the least complicated of watches with less precious metal in the mechanism than a Patek or Blancpain. With parts made of teflon etc. and with a fewer number of parts its easier for innards of the typical Rolex piece to be a bit more rugged. But all my watches including the Lehman have shot, swam and climbed in the hardiest of conditions.
Never been in a train wreck, but if and when I am, I'd rather be wearing my Lehman.
The "tougher steel" marketing pablum is completely irrelevant to the durability of a high quality timepiece. Well unless you might put the case in a vise. The Rolex will take an extra turn or two I'm sure.
With 700,000 Rolexes made a year and tens of millions in existence, you are bound to hear of more stories. There are only 200 of my particular Lehman made over the course of a few years. I'll doubt I'll ever even meet someone wearing the same piece. And perhaps we are a bit luckier than the average man donning a Rolex.