Dr No[Moderator Omega - Wristscan]
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Please allow me to respond with . . .
. . . a parable of sorts, Mostel.
I'm acquainted with a person whose given name has an offensive connotation in the English language, and which must've caused him endless pain and embarrassment. He went on to become a highly regarded professional, and while it would've behooved him to change his name, he retained it out of pride for his ancestors and for what it meant to them.
I'm sure that when he meets clients for the first time, none of them express an opinion about his name, even though they may be struggling not to laugh.
An "elephant in the room" exists precisely because it is not openly recognized. The privilege to express ones thoughts is a value we hold dear, but no less dearly than the value of common courtesy.
Sincerely,
Art