Well, I guess a lot of us have been in your position with respec to losing spouses and sleep. LOL
It is really difficult to compare these two pieces, as they are so different in spite of the fct that they are both in the same metal. IMHO you need to just figure out which one makes your heart beat a little faster than the other, regardless of perceived value, etc. Either way, you can't make a bad decision - they are both great watches. Let us know what you decide and post some photos. Goo luck.
respo