Fricks
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5130R all the way...
It has a warm feel that you will rarely find in another watch. You gotta to admire the dial under the sun, it will look totally different.
Also, its not big, the problem with 5110P is that it feels really small, even for a woman's wrist, if you ask me.
I don't think its a matter of wrist size but more of personal taste. Some people like vintage watches so much, that their eye get used to the small sizes, sometimes they can go for an even smaller watch if they love it... Even though it will look ridiculous on their wrist. Egoistic kind of love

You know your husband better than us, but if you ask me, i'd go fo 5130R, it just feel nicer.
By the way, its a very nice thought of you, lots of guys here are living the opposite situation, wives breaking on their watcholic pulses