Beautiful photos! I didn't think of the potential problems you listed!
I certainly didn't imagine my wife damaging the watch or abusing it. I assumed she would treat it as carefully as I do, but that is a large assumption. Thank you for your input.
I imagine my wife wearing the (shared) watch under the following conditions: (1) I'm alive and we are together when she wears it, (2) I'm deceased and I'm hoping from the grave that she is careful with it.
Best,
Robert