Although I never owned one (yet), 5100 is one of my favorites: 5100 G as a first choice, and 5100 R if choice 1 is really out of reach (but the G version is simply Arrrgh !).
Don't be confused: listen to your heart, listen to your friends here, but at the end make your own opinion.
It's not because we all agree on a particular option that this will be the right choice for you.
I am eager to see your final choice in 2 weeks with corresponding wrist shots.
Best,
Mike